-Think about how popular and culturally accepted/expected it is for women to now go 50/50 on dates. Ask your grandparents about this phenomenon in modern dating (for fun, bring it up with your ‘modern’ guy in the room). So not only do men want women to split the cost of dating, they still hope for and expect sex (likely within 3 dates). What happens to the notion of “50/50” when it comes to sex? Seems like 50/50 goes right out the window as many women report they rarely orgasm. How are men not embarrassed? You paid for your own steak and don’t even get to orgasm. How’s that 50/50?
-Can we talk about the rag monologue of “post-nut clarity (PNC)?” So you’ve got hordes of men who can all align together in solidarity about this phenomenon PNC. What men are basically admitting to, is that they’re actually foolish right up until they orgasm. You’ve heard men joke that you can’t place a woman in power because she’ll nuke the world when she’s on her period….well maybe (another reason) men need to give up their reigns of power is because they readily admit they can’t make logical rational decisions when they’re horny; which is basically a 24/7 mood (also self-admitted). This could explain a lot in terms of where we are politically. So much PNC happening but a too little too late phenomenon
-Porn. Porn is an actual addiction for men. They watch other men having sex and it rewires their brains. They can’t separate porn from real life and then become disappointed and disengaged from sex with actual women….to the point that they draw comparisons within their actual relationships. How weird is this? Many men actually struggle with porn induced ED, they’ve watched so much porn and spent so much time alone with their hand that they’ve crippled their ability to see and appreciate real women in real life! I think it’s a shame when women get with these men and try to rehabilitate them. Save your efforts. If they’ve spent so much of their time alone on a laptop, then that’s all they get. Let them suffer the consequences of building their sex life around pixels.
So let’s summarize modern dating for women. You’re going to have to pay for your own dinner, the sex will not lead to an orgasm for you after you’ve watched him fumble around with his ED inflicted member, then you get the fun of dealing with his PNC…meaning he’ll ghost you when it’s all said and done.