Hello ladies, I recently had a bad experience with a man and I have been noticing similar behavior in lots of men. They like to think that we owe them love/affection/sex just because they put a little bit of effort into us.
This guy, in particular, paid for one date, and after I decided to cut him off because we aren't compatible and he showed aggressive tendencies he called me a bitch. Now his whole friend group talks badly about me because I turned down their friend who put effort into me and paid for a date.
Now one day I was scrolling through Reddit and I saw a post where a lot of men were saying that all women are bad because apparently, we "ghost" them and refuse dates after they've been good to us. This "nice guy" behavior is becoming more common and we should avoid men like that.
There are some red flags that we should look out for, for example:
1st 🚩: If a guy often generalizes women and says things like "you are not like other girls, they are all just after money" or if he says things like "women these days don't appreciate nice guys anymore".
2nd 🚩: If a guy is seemingly nice but then gets angry or passive-aggressive about small things or when you don't behave the way he wants you to.
3rd 🚩: If a guy is mean to others, or if someone tells you he is an asshole but to you he is kind. This is just a facade he is putting on because he wants something from you.
Also a 🚩, if he hangs out with misogynist douchebags don't think that he is different. They usually stick together.
That was just my two cents mixed with venting about yet another disappointment in my dating life. Stay safe ladies!