Like in here, for example: https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/06/dear-prudie-fiancee-suffered-a-stroke-leave-her.html
From the article - “keep checking in with yourself and ask, “What would I expect and want her to do if our situations were reversed?” —Emily Yoffe” Exactly. What a low life piece of shit. His fiancé would’ve stayed with this asshole.