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I don't spend much time posting on r*ddit because it's a cesspool and a waste of time, but I'll admit I like to look at the dating subs out of morbid curiousity, to remind myself how bad it is out there, and to remember how the typical scrote thinks.
I made a simple comment on one popular post in particular just trying to leave some little subtle FDS nuggets of advice and I got called a NARCISSIST lol. Like they're full-on playing the victim now because they can't handle that women have standards, but they refuse to take actual womens' advice either - mine got called awful, l o l. So they're stuck in the limbo of crying about how unfair dating is while doing everything in their power to be horrible dates when they finally manage to get any.
Like there's absolutely 0 self-reflection. No accountability. FDS is great because while we can complain about scrotes, we also look at our own actions in relation to dating and work on not tolerating bad behaviour. Our "leveling up" is focused on making our own lives better so we don't need a man. In contrast, all men's "leveling up" is focused on what they think gets them more women and completely ignores their personality and inner self. This is most evident in the men who are like "I have a great job, I got jacked, I'm tall, why don't I get 8000 likes on Tinder???" Idk man, maybe because women can just feel the years of bitter manosphere wannabe-PUA vibes radiating off you? Maybe you're the one "aiming out of your league" (something something top 10% of men, eyeroll, as if men are going for their "league"), as they like to say about women. Maybe instead of trying to game 100 women, you focus on 1 or 2 that you treat well? Nahhhhhh, too much effort, just keep whining that women ~don't feel a spark~ when your cheap ass couldn't even pay for her coffee on your 30th "walk date".
It'd be so funny if it wasn't bleeding over into totally normal guys. We say the bar is in hell, somehow it's gotten even lower, if r*ddit is at all an indicator of the general dating culture. Be careful of even the guys that seem to have it all, because those ones can turn out to be the most bitter of all. They just expect because they have what other men say women want, that women should be throwing themselves at them. And if "all" they can get is you when they want more, well... just vet carefully ladies. Sometimes they're lifelong experts at hiding their bitter side.
Men don’t actually want women. They want to feel superior to women. That’s why they would rather whine and insult us than listen to our advice.
Don't spend too much time on Preddit. While it might give us some insights into the deepest depths of the male psyche, it's not exactly representative of the entire population. The average Preddit scrote is self-absorbed, condescending, chronically online, a "devil's advocate" for the sake of sounding intelligent, and most likely socially awkward. All they do is complain about their lives. It's not the place for honest introspection and self improvement. I found that the best, most emotionally stable guys (and people in general) don't spend too much time on social media.
They don't want girlfriends or wives, they want a warm hole and to have their ego stroked. Men are the ultimate cheapskates for it too, seeing how lazy AND how much they can not spend whilst getting pussy - but they have no issues spending crazy amounts of time and effort and money on gaming, cars, computers, etc.
They'll make the effort and time to whine and complain about how "she was * " and gaslight, manipulate, etc to try to make her the bad one- rather than keeping things to themselves or trying to learn what he did wrong or what else he needs to work on.
"Like there's absolutely 0 self-reflection. No accountability. FDS is great because while we can complain about scrotes, we also look at our own actions in relation to dating and work on not tolerating bad behaviour. Our "leveling up" is focused on making our own lives better so we don't need a man. In contrast, all men's "leveling up" is focused on what they think gets them more women and completely ignores their personality and inner self."
Amen. This is the gospel.
hahaha this