So, I got married in my early twenties. I have two kids.
I loved them, they had great early childhoods.
I got a few marriage proposals from guys wanting kids and all I could do was try not to barf.
I logically know I don't want more kids.
...and then I see videos of babies and start thinking about dudes I used to know from like, college and shit.
Is this normal? I'm seeing something that's not there, right? Like, all the "could have beens" and shit are driving me a little crazy. I assume this will get worse as I age?
I can't relate but it probably has something to do with hormones. You can acnowledge your feelings without acting on them. Would it help if you looked at your kids baby photos during those times? Try to channel those urges in a creative way.