Have you noticed scrotes run away, minimize, or try to covertly put you down as soon as they realize you’ve achieved something they haven’t?
I recently had an experience of a scrote who asked me out for drinks. This was the first red flag along with others — the reason being: drink dates tend to be low effort and have fboy energy, the last date I went out on was a fancy dinner and the guy (a different guy) brought me roses so I told myself I wouldn’t be dating unless it was a memorable offer, as dating is generally not worth the numerous risks.
Anywho, with this dude, I basically told him no I don’t go on drink dates and plus (yes, this was my mistake in sharing and not ghosting him immediately, but I still battle being polite sometimes and we had had an otherwise decent convo beforehand, so I felt more hesitant) I had a busy week anyway since he mentioned doing it soon.
He proceeded to ask me if what I was working on was for work or school, and when I reluctantly shared vaguely I was working on at work, but the fact that I was at a certain level of education (higher than his and at a very well known university) also came up — he stopped contact immediately.
Of course this is a good thing as I did not want to waste my time with such a person who clearly has fboi motives.
But to do that specifically AFTER I mentioned something like that is very telling. He didn’t do it after I told him I don’t do drink dates or rejected him for a date. He did it specifically after finding out more about what I did for work and school. I kept it as vague as possible so he wouldn’t be able to stalk or harass me but apparently it was enough info that he felt the need to do that.
I have had many experiences of LVM envious AF weirdo men who couldn’t handle a woman being accomplished or educated. Either because they’re threatened or assume I’d be harder to manipulate or control. Have you had this experience?
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