You should not be making porn for guys, whether you are in a relationship or not. There’s nothing in it for you and you have everything to lose. Even if it’s illegal where you are for men to share porn of you they still do it very commonly, showing it to friends in person or in text threads or to strangers online. Any person who has worked in and “fit in” at a majority male environment can attest to this. You’ll still face social consequences whether you ever find out it’s happening to you or not. You’ll face the same mental health consequences whether he is punished for it or not. Women have lost reputation, family, friends, jobs, and taken their own lives because of this. It’s a nightmare to even remove this content from the internet, and it may keep popping up forever as men upload it to websites over and over again.
A HVM is not pornsick, period! He provides for your safety, cares about your comfort, and does not see you as an object. He would not ask you to produce pornography for him no more than he would ask any other person he truly respects to submit, degrade themself, or put themself at risk.