I have comprised 5 questions that have helped me to root out LVM/Scrotes/Unevolved men from my sphere. I feel like it will help you ladies too. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? Sit back and listen to the answer. Or non-answer in many cases. Any man worth his weight in a relationship will have looked into his own future, and made a plan for said future. He will have goals. And he will have a plan to attain said goals. If you ask this question, and that guy looks at you like a deer in headlights??? Or he has to think LONG AND HARD, about it cause he's never thought about it before? NEXT. He's an LVM/NVM. 2. How did your last relationship affect you when it ended? This question will let you know if he is over his ex, or if he's looking to you to be a rebound, to get him over his ex. It will also let you know, how he speaks about his ex. Is he blaming her for everything? Does he take any responsibility? Does he use you as his personal therapist? He could be a Narc, trying to foster a faster bond with you than normal. 3. Do you think there is such a thing as not being able to afford a date? A real HVM will always find a way to be able to afford a date. He has goals, ambitions, and plans to properly court women. If he sees himself never affording dates then that is a red flag.. 4. What or Who do you turn to for comfort when life is overwhelming? We should all have healthy coping mechanisms when life becomes stressful. 5. How comfortable are you asking for help when you are stressed? If he can't ask for help, then he will turn to his vices. ie: sex addiction, gambling, drugs, alcohol, cheating etc.