The guy was a complete NVM. Would turn any topic into sex, kept touching and even expected me to kiss him all the time.
The only reason why I didn't just leave, was because I didn't want to pay. I stayed till the end, didn't reach for my purse when the waiter brought the bill and blocked and deleted him when I got home.
At other times, I would still have blocked him, but I would have paid for my order thinking that I owed him it.
I used to legitly blame myself for a guy being overly sexual on a first date. I thought that it was normal and since I wasn't going to have sex with him, the least I could do would be paying my share.
Now I know that I'm not responsible for anyone's expectations and that if a man is being overly sexual, it's on him. He had a chance to court me and he blew it. Next.
Thank you all for this forum. I wish I knew about FDS a couple of years ago