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The last straw on the camels back was placed.
My boyfriend has a Facebook account which I never added. I noticed that his ex girlfriend is on his friends list. But not me. For a long time he told me that he can't log into Facebook but I realized that he still posts on there semi regularly.
So I added him. He called me and said he can't figure out how to log in to Facebook and I said "well you publicly posted there 6 days ago so you knew" and he said he will figure out how to add me.
I checked earlier about an hour ago, and I realized that he not only declined my Facebook friends request, but he also blocked me from being able to add him again, likely tightening his security settings.
I called him and said "whatever shady shit you are doing on Facebook, I don't care. But I am not going to stick around anymore". He yelled at me "stop putting so much emphasis on social media!!!!" And I said "I don't care. Clearly there is something you are trying to hide from me. Too many things you do don't add up. I don't want to be with you anymore."
He keeps texting me and asking me to call him and talk to him and stuff and he says he will call me later today. But I am just tired. Tired of feeling unwanted or like an inconvenience. What the heck would he try hide from me on Facebook besides another girl or some kind of criminal record? I can't do this anymore. It's the last straw.
Good for you sis!! *claps*, and *hug*
Please never talk to him again. That is the best revenge. Even if you ever feel like you need "closure" or whatever- you already have it. Your (forever) silence will hurt him more than anything. You don't deserve or need to ever hear his dumbass voice or explanations at all ever again. Never ever let a man show you more than once that he doesn't want you (and only you), or appreciate you. Do NOT let him gaslight you. I know (from experience) it can be tempting to want to contact him again (or answer his call/text) even if it's just to tell him to go fuck himself or whatever, but DON'T.
A really hard pill for me to swallow after getting out of my last relationship (which was actually my first and only thus far) was that men will literally lie until their teeth fall out. There can be (and clearly is) evidence that literally disproves everything they are saying and they will still gaslight you and make YOU feel like you're the POS for being upset over both the actions and then the dishonesty. Lying is in a man's nature. Even if he has a whole ass other girlfriend, he will still say whatever he thinks he has to say to get you to stick around because he's an entitled cockhole who believes that he should have any/every woman he pleases in his life. I know you are smarter than to ever speak to him again, but I really would like to emphasize once more: DO NOT EVER SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN. THERE IS NO BENEFIT TO IT FOR YOU. IT WILL ONLY GIVE HIM ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY TO GASLIGHT AND MANIPULATE YOU. And especially post-breakup, when your emotions are a wreck, no matter how smart you are, there is always the chance you will end up believing his lies. He showed you loud and clear what kind of person he is so now for the sake of your own mental well being and future, you have no other choice but to #BLOCKANDDELETE and never look back. Best of luck!!