This was a common theme I'd see among scrotes when I'd hangout in groups in college and high school, and even beyond when if hangout with my friends and their boyfriends: scrotes always feel the need to keep mention their dicks. It's not only disgusting but it's a massive red flag and I'm so tired of it.
I even had a few bad first dates where the guy would just stand funny with his legs spread apart. They also had this weird tendency to keep grabbing their crotch in front of me, itching their crotch, or setting both their hands to rest so that it framed their crotch (when they had pockets or could have easily placed their hands anywhere else. They also all tended to mainstream when they would be seated and continue to grab their crotch as we were talking, very obviously.
They seem to do this because they're trying to bring attention to their dick.
If you're in a group setting with a bunch of friends or you're just messaging each other, they'll keep bringing sexual things up especially things about their size, their past sexual encounters, they'll share "funny stories" which will all happen to be around sex, maybe they'll mention their job or past jobs but they'll have to insert something sexual. These men that keep brining up their dicks /sex lives are the biggest pigs.
They know that it makes most women uncomfortable- because they make everything sexual. They are trying to place the idea of sex in your head to wear you down and get you more comfortable with it, it's predatory and almost like a type of grooming.
Have you seen women in public grabbing their crotches, constantly itching their crotches or adjusting their shorts/pants? No I haven't. Do you know women that always have to mention their lady bits to male friends or in coed groups? Nope. It's a scrote thing. Usually my friends and I would always go to the bathroom to fix a wedgie or anything. Scrotes will say that they get sweaty or itchy down there, but that's concerning because they should be clean and itchiness that they have to keep scratching in front of you isn't normal - he could have something more serious going on like an std, but it's more likely that he just wants to draw attention to his crotch.
It's honestly just really off putting to me. The worst was when I was on a first date and the dude kept leaning back and forth while he kept grabbing his crotch. I've seen other guys do this and they almost look like they have to pee and are doing like a potty Dance ... but when we sat down for the movies I realized then that he had a hard on and we had only just met and hugged. He continued to shift around in his seat and grab at his crouch like a toddler that had to pee throughout the movie. I'll also add that he didn't have any disabilities or anything that would have excused the behavior, and I've seen other men do the same things. It's just like they're super horny pigs and they just can't keep their hands off themselves, it must have to do with porn sickness.
It honestly makes me feel very uncomfortable and awkward when I'm trying to look at a man's face and speak with him and vet him and his hands keep moving to his crotch.... he needs ro control himself or make use of the bathroom if he does need to adjust anything.
Anyone else know what I mean?
It's really baffling to me how men can act very perverted, rape, molest and sexually assault, yet non of these degenerate behaviors are perceived as "desperate" or "slutty" Notice how men can act like the most deranged slutty desperate whores, yet never earn those titles? But god forbid a woman having a body count higher than zero or showing some skin! If only women as a collective started slut shaming these scrotes the same way they do to us.. imagine a world where men like that get their reputations ruined.. loosing "husband material" status... getting bullied..getting rape threats by other men, or even losing their lives.....basically deal with shit that women go through for simply exercising their autonomy....if only we had those consequences for men, the world would be a better place
i'd directly ask him if he needed the bathroom. 😂 fuck niceties. also, i have a friend who manspreads in response to men who manspread next to her on public transportation! i don't dare to imitate her in fear of getting grabbed so i use my bag to enroach their space instead.
And he was in his 20s! This isn't middle school where everyone's hitting puberty and guys get random boners. The fact that your date felt the need to hint he was getting a hard on was vile. Scrotes love to make it all about their dicks, all they can think of is sex. Really goes to show you that they only care about sex. So inappropriate. I would have walked out.
I'm sorry but this thread made me laugh with your descriptions. These scrotes are truly awful to the point where it's absurd. But the answer your question, someone on the sub mentioned that patriarchy is a 🍆-worshipping cult and that honestly changed my view of the world. Like of course they want to hold their "idol"
Along a similar theme...men that constantly share sexual, sexualized, or porn-screenshot memes on their social media. Like...you want your co-workers to see that? Your neighbors? Literally anyone female? I just don't get how they're not in the least bit embarrassed or ashamed to share memes that are only entertaining to porn addicts/coomers, and don't get how off-putting that is for any woman who sees it. Like yeah, you're horny but...now I'm definitely not going to do anything about it for you 😂 So gross. Boy bye
The grown male busdriver stopped the other day and screamed in the bus to the back; I have to pee. I was like tmi, nobody needs to know that just excuse yourself and then comeback.
That sounds like a pretty extreme case. Sheesh that dude should NOT be dating. I think you were the first woman he’s spoken to all year. 😅 I find it tiring, too. Met yet another guy last night who hinted at having a small one. Ha. Alright don’t want you mate 😝
I'm so sorry you've had these experiences! Scrotes are honestly so desperate and trashy, it's disgusting. I haven't had many experiences like this but I've definitely noticed a correlation with professionalism. If a man does a professional job, he seems to be less likely to be comfortable lounging about, manspreading and desperately grabbing at his crotch as he stares at random women. Probably because he knows he'd get done for sexual harassment. That said, I've seen men on the street and in gyms obviously not wearing underwear and trying to draw as much attention to their crotch as possible. It's so gross 🤢 When I was younger and took the bus from school, there were boys who would 'accidentally' push their crotches onto girls, get random erections, manspread and itch at themselves the whole journey. Can you imagine the uproar if girls assaulted boys like this? With hindsight, they must have been so pornsick 🤮 If it happened to me now and I felt comfortable in the circumstances saying it, I'd probably ask if they had fleas. Like, you should probably get that checked out, ya know? It's insane how much of their lives are dictated by their genitals.
*mainstream was a typo which was supposed to say "man spread"
This french song hilariously sums men's obsession with their dick. English lyrics available https://youtu.be/V2fVwoaeShU