Stop having sex with men.

You heard me. STOP. What the hell are you doing? There’s no way that in this political landscape, you are opening your legs to any male for ANY reason. I don’t care if he is a prince and also a fucking billionaire, DO NOT HAVE SEX! The moment you have sex with them, they view you as a powerless little object for them to use because we practically are. In a patriarchy, sexual access to women is one of the main ways we are subordinated.

I have not had sex in quite a long time, and yet all my needs and MORE are being paid for by men without really even having to deal with them. Why? Because withholding is our true power. You have to realize that there is nothing males covet more than pussy, especially unattainable pussy. They will walk through an ocean of shit to get access to the vagina they desire. Take advantage ladies, please. Stop giving away your true powers. Withhold your flower like it’s an inheritance of a trillion dollars. I don’t care if you’re horny, get a hitachi and a dildo damnit. If you MUST have a man touch you sexually, do everything except let him penetrate you or receive oral sex from you. He should only be worshiping you and giving to you period. Men actually love to grovel for us if you let them.

The moment you let him feel like he has the upper hand, it’s over. This is even more important if you’re looking for a man to love you. Why are you having sex with him before marriage? What do you actually gain? Do you gain money? Safety? Peace? No, you get 2-15 minutes of mid to no pleasure where you usually don’t even cum. What does he get? FREE pussy that requires 0 actual commitment beyond words, and likely the orgasm of a lifetime, plus getting to look down on you for letting him (yes, the men you have sex with think you’re lesser for having sex with them).

Not only is that lame, it’s detrimental to female empowerment. Let that man WORK tirelessly and endlessly to get access to you. When you withhold, all the men who want you will be desperately competing just for the chance that maybe one day you’ll acquiesce. You know that you won’t, but they don’t. They’re always going to hope that you’ll cave, and they will pay for that hope if you make them.

Stop giving males access to your vagina when they already have everything in this world and more. All the power, capital, access, networks, etc. They OWE us, endlessly. For what they’ve done to womankind, they need to pay. They should NOT be rewarded with sex. Sex is positive reinforcement, which is great once you marry a HVM provider husband, but if you do it any time before that he views you as a free or low value prostitute. Even if you’re his “girlfriend” (not real). Ladies let’s raise our consciousness by healing or sexual energy and femininity. Dick makes you act silly, so be smart.