What is it with men trying to get free shit off of you from OLD?
Yes I know that most don't agree with OLD and I am beginning to see why. I am a person who has to experience things before I learn my lesson and boy am I learning it.
Little bit of backstory I am an avid Kayaker and spend most of my free time doing so.
Numerous times men have tried to get me to be their kayak instructor after a few back and forth messages. One said "We could go kayaking sometime together." And I was like that would be cool. But I assumed that would be after getting to know each other cuz, you know, I don't want to go in the middle of a lake with a total stranger without having gone on quite a few dates with them.
Then he sends me his instagram and wants me to message me on there so we can plan to kayak. No formal request for dinner or even asking for a date! Just someone to take him to do stuff.
This has happened numerous times and it gets so frustrating. Unless you are going to pay me I am not going to teach you shit.