What do you want?

I’ve noticed something on this platform that I’d like to address and I’d also like to ask everyone a question.

What are you looking for?

Seriously, I don’t think this has truly been a consideration on here. Sure, we talk about desirable traits of a HVM, but what do you WANT? A man being HV is the bare minimum. The rest is your choice. Do you want to travel with him often? Do you want a man who wants a family? Do you want a man who’s artistic? Do you like a man who is urban or from the country? Do you observe any religion that you want your partner to also observe? Do you want him to be a hopeless romantic and write you poetry? We can always say “He’s a high value man because he has a great job, is consistent, spoils me, and is faithful” but that’s only the start. The nuances are where the true fun and beauty of relationships lies. I just want you all to consider exactly what you want beyond the minimum standards and expectations. Knowing what you want is the first step to attaining it. Don’t give up on the whispered desires of your heart.