It's such a turn off a man begging a woman for money! A man that loves you doesn't want to look less than capable in your eyes. He will figure it out on his own, he has friends and family he doesn't need to ask me. I have found they tend to be users and want YOU to take care of them. *cough* like my ex husband for example. What do y'all do when a guy tries to beg for money? For me it's an immediate block.