"I do 50/50 so that the guy wouldn't use the date against me and demand sex after"
✒️ So after spending money on food and a little shopping, probably cost him around 100$ give or take, he automatically has the right to sleep with you? How is that fair? Last I remember a guy spend way more on his bros on a night out drinking, does he automatically has the right to sleep with them too?
✒️ Sorry for the harsh example, but hookers can charge more than that per hour. Escorts and sugar babies? Even more. And scrotes have to pay each time before they can get access to their service. But you are expected to sleep with them regularly because he paid for a measly dinner once in a while?
✒️ So you do 50/50, you keep dating them, you start to catch feelings - and then he asks for sex. Will the 50/50 still protect you? He can say that he loves you, he wants to know you better, he sees a future with you, he starts triangulating you with another girl so that you give in etc2 - men don't have just one way to coerce you into sex, they have many. They can play the long ass game if they want to.
✒️ Men get used to things fast - and he will always use that baseline to treat you. If you get him too used to 50/50 on dates, meaning he never need to go the extra mile for you yet still get all the love and affection - he probably wouldn't magically change and spoil you better after you two get official. He can get you at 50%, why would he ever go 100%?
✒️ And also, you went on a DATE but you still have to spend money? Why do you even go on one then? That is like being invited to a gala yet you still have to pay - sounds like a scam. He asked YOU out, he should know what that means, duh.
✒️ And if YOU ask him out? Just don't do it sis. Don't seek men out, it is not worth it. Men look down on women who ask them out, no matter how you approach that invitation. They just see you as easy target for the evening. And have no problem making you pay for all of it while also demanding sex after.
✒️ Rejecting 50/50 and expecting him to pay without him demanding sex after is a way to draw out the red flags early on - it can help you filter out the ones seriously pursuing you and those who just use the date to get sex. Get used to block and delete, up and leave, bathroom and ghost, and all the tactics to stop the date before it gets worse sisters.
✒️ There's no need to be nice and polite to a scrote who clearly have hidden intentions. Left him in the dust, prioritize yourself. And yes that does mean you will be the cold-hearted b***h to him, but who cares? He is the one with evil intention from the beginning, you need to do what you can to protect yourself.
✒️ If he already tallying up how you should "pay him back" after doing some miniscule nice things for you - I don't care how much of a "great conversationalist" he is, block him immediately. Keeping tabs just show that that person is a selfish, narcissist, self-serving, stingy scrote. Nothing good will come out from being around him.
✒️ And here's the kicker: HVM despise 50/50. They want to see that their efforts are working, and that you feel comfortable enough to allow them to continue courting you. You offering to pay half is signaling that what they didn't aren't "enough" -- that you feel the need to get your purse out. THEY WANT TO IMPRESS YOU LADIES -- so let them.
✒️ When it comes to courtship process and relationship -- it is back to the basic ladies. No need to overcomplicate, politically-correct, all these LibFem wah-wah things that doesn't work in the long run. They all sounds good on paper -- but try observe couple going 50/50 in real life and you will realize just how "wrong" it feels. And just how many stories of 50/50 relationship falling apart after a couple of years.