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"I am lonely and just want company/sex"
✒️ Which one is harder - being harder on yourself for 6 months to a year, training yourself to fill up your time doing things and hobbies that benefit you while fighting that thought and feelings of loneliness or;
✒️ Go get that 50/50 date, eventually give in to his coercion for sex, get ghosted the morning after or get him as a partner and keep having to do all the damn things so that he will stay with you. While he continue to treat you like trash. For 5, 10, 20 years?
✒️ You will have to suffer either way - but which one is worth suffering for?
✒️ Yes, I admit that being alone is lonely at the beginning and sometimes, but if you are willing to suffer just for a year, you will eventually get used to this new lifestyle and found yourself getting busy with many many things that make you happy and content. Even lazing around doing nothing is beneficial for us women - we need frequent rests and stay away from any kind of stress and toxicity. You can't get that if you get saddled with a toxic manchild.
✒️ For those who think "well, he thinks he is using me but I am actually also using him for sex" - but at what cost? You are still vulnerable every time you are alone and naked in his room, you still got to worry about accidentally getting pregnant because some men think condom is the evilist evil to ever evil in the history of mankind, you still are at risk of being raped and killed because date is a common tactic for serial killers to lure his victims, you still have to spend money getting ready for the date, still forking out money for the "50/50", still at risk of catching feelings because women are emotionally intelligent but also more emotionally vulnerable in an intimate date setting, still have to look out for narcissist manipulations and well, pretty much think about all of the paranoid risks you have when going out with a stranger - and trust all of them. Because those paranoia are grounded in reality. You just never know who will be your nightmare.
✒️ We have to realize women will always have more to lose when we choose to go on a date. When going out on a date, men are afraid of getting duped by catfishers, while women are afraid of getting raped and killed.
Stay tuned, and stay safe.
Women fear getting trafficked, killed, drugged, assaulted, stalked, coerced into sex... While men fear getting catfished & uESd fOr a fRee mEaL It shows how risky it is to deal with men! These dudes should be fucking grateful that women are still giving them the time of the day considering all the risks that women go through just to go out and meet a stranger man...instead of being thankful a woman is breathing their way, these scrotes have the audacity to demand sex, go 50-50 and offer low effort dates! Women need to only stick to dating men who offer high effort dates...it's not worth it to waste your time & makeup dressing up and leave your house risking your life only to meet a scrote who's not even trying to impress you. Women are naturally the prize, and with the added risks it makes us even more pricey
When you date from a place of loneliness and an internal void, the problem is that an LVM will fill that void, and then you rely on him to function. You must learn to be a whole, contented, stable person before dating. Otherwise you will get yourself trapped in relationship(s) that are dysfunctional and dangerous with men who will pull you down so you’re worse off emotionally, physically, and financially than you were before. Do not give access to anyone who is not worthy of you, and continually level up so worthiness becomes more difficult for men to achieve. Loneliness is a real challenge, but lean on family, female friends, pets, and your own hobbies and passions.