The guy I've been letting walk in and out of my life for the last 2 years recently sent me yet another 'just best friends' text, and promptly ignored me for a week or so afterwards. I contacted him to let him know I've had some concerning test results and need to go screen for cancer. He replied "what has this got to do with me? Good luck."
I brought this on myself accepting disrespect in the past. Why would he suddenly change when an actual challenge appears?
Because he was never interested in you. He was interested in the attention you offered him. An ego stroke. Validation.
He is using you. He thinks of you as a convenient place he can jump back to and unleash his boredom, libido and whatever the hell he is feeling at that moment.
God forbid you share what you’re feeling or going through with him 🤡
This man sounds like garbage and you’re not the lid to his bin.
Block. Delete. Forget.
Oh my god that is fucking abhorrent. OP I hope you kick cancer’s ass and build a beautiful life with this new found outlook of not tolerating disrespect.
Thank you all for your support. I blocked him on everything instantly and deleted his number, but I've been feeling really low since. It's hard not to unblock him and cOmMunIcAtE, so I came here instead.
Being nice to men can either get yourself killed or mistreated, At times it's hard to be this way but this is not a fairytale or a novel where the ppl who disrespect work on themselves so that It won't happen again, If you are tolerant towards disrespect then they will never stop. Removing yourself is always the best option, not the easiest but the most responsible one. I cut them out like a cancer and I'm not looking back because I rather regret snapping ties with people who disrespected me than regret not snapping ties with them.
Snapping ties is hard but getting screwed over again is even harder.
petty losers always claim that nice guys finish last but nice girls are left for dead.
This is so disgusting. I'm so sorry he's treated you this way. Block and delete, OP. Focus on your health.
He calls you his best friend but says your test results have nothing to do with him? Wow….throw the whole man out. I wish you the best in dealing with your health issues. You don’t need a LVM like that dragging you down at all, least of all when you’re sick.
He, like most men, sees women just a warm masturbatory aid with a pulse. He never saw you as a human being. Block and delete him from everywhere. Don't let him take up any space in your head or your life. He's dead to you.
My best friend in college was in a horrific car crash where she rolled her Pathfinder 9 times down a hill outside of Hershey, PA. She was hospitalized for 3 months, her left arm was paralyzed, her femur was broken, she had a hole above her knee (that's never healed even 30 years later), etc. She'd been seeing a couple of guys on and off for 3 years by then...the typical "you're not good enough to be my girlfriend nonsense), and neither of these guys even sent her an email much less called to see if she was alive. This was before the scrote term FWB was even invented. She was so sad, and I remember telling her how subhuman these guys were. And I made sure she and they knew about how evil they were. Men see women like appliances. The toaster breaks down, and they just buy a new one. They expect you to be there for them, though. Be forewarned.
"what has this got to do with me? Good luck."
WOW, what a piece of shit.
And he claims you're "just best friends"? I wouldn't treat a stranger on the bus this way.
I hope you blocked his number without response and that you get good medical news soon.
Is this cervical cancer? Cause maybe it concerns him afterall, if he gave you HPV, and is now infecting other women.