But you have been brainwashed into believing that you don't know jack sh*t when it comes to making a decision.
So you go to the internet and ask 256,784 different strangers -- "Sooo, what do you think?"
About absolutely personal relationship issues that none of these 256,784 strangers even have 0.00000000001% knowledge of.
So they give advices from their personal POVs -- so you got 256,784 different opinions -- and you get even more CONFUSED. And NONE of them is what you want to hear.
So you keep asking more advices, and keep asking, and keep asking, and keep asking....
Meanwhile, your situation got worse because you ain't doing sh*t to solve your problems -- you just rather sit in your indecisiveness and keep asking more advices, and keep asking, and keep asking, and keep asking....
"So, what do you think?"
What do I think?
I think you are terrified of making a decision.
You are terrified that you will make the "wrong" decision (you always think you will make the "wrong" decision) so you just rather sit in your indecisiveness and keep asking more advices, and keep asking, and keep asking, and keep asking....
Let me tell y'all something folks:
The most frustrating problem I face when dealing with women isn't that y'all are dumb -- but hell y'all really are TERRIFIED of making a decision.
ABSOLUTELY AND UTTERLY TERRIFIED.
I know this community is good for y'all but hell damn some of y'all literally what us to THINK FOR YOU.
You want us to DECIDE FOR YOU.
You "have" to come here and "ask permission" before deciding to cut that man off. "Just to be sure".
Yeah I know. I know that the patriarchy brainwashes you since birth to deeply believe that you "know nothing, absolutely nothing at all" and frightened you into fearing making a mistake if you decide to DECIDE FOR YOURSELF.
Especially concerning relationship with a man. For some f**king reason.
You gotta ask 256,784 different strangers that will give you 256,784 different opinions -- and you will not solve your problem in the meantime -- because you are doing NOTHING.
You have been "good" -- you asked 256,784 different strangers -- you have "done your part". Right??
It doesn't matter if it comes from the "right" community and the "right" person -- you are still doing NOTHING. You are still NOT solving your problem, you are just avoiding it and pretending that you are doing something "productive".
They LIED to you okay? They LIED. They make you believe that you are so incapable of making a decision that you just "have" to ask 256,784 different strangers.
They frightened you so much with the "horrors" of making the "wrong" decision that you just don't make a decision altogether.
They f**king LIED.
Ain't no wrong decision will affect your life so badly that you will die alone lying rotten in a ditch somewhere. NO.
One man down, a million more you have to deal with. You lose nothing.
Just cut him off. Just block and delete. Just bathroom and ghost. JUST F**KING WALK AWAY.
Just make the damn decision and deal with the aftermath.
Ain't no amount of asking and psychoanalyzing that dude will help you in any way -- you are just making yourself more confused and sad.
You just sit there. In your indecisiveness. Wondering why the hell everything keep getting worse and worse and worse.
You are NOT dumb. But you sure treat yourself like one.
ONE thing I can tell you though -- you KNOW deep down what you SHOULD do. But you are TERRIFIED. So you keep asking and keep asking and keep asking and keep asking and you keep asking...
Sorry but I ain't got time for that. It is your problem, so you have to decide. You ain't dumb.