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Given that the risks of sex are WAY higher and the rewards WAY lower for women - a man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field.
First off, a fundamental law of nature is that Pussy has value, and dick doesn’t. There is a reason why the females are usually the choosier sex - any sexual engagement with males comes with high risk and limited reward.
Men and Women do not carry equal risk of engagement during sex. Your risks as a woman who engages in an encounter with a new man are always WAY higher than the reverse. Women are more physically more susceptible to STDs that can severely effect our fertility (such as HPV). We also carry the risk of unwanted pregnancy, abortion, effects of birth control, rape, etc. As women we carry waaaaay more risk in casual sexual encounters with men, and it's absurd liberal feminists try to pretend othwerise.
Women do not orgasms at the rate and frequency of men. The rewards of sex for women are usually a lot lower than for men. Men orgasm most times they have sex, this is not the case for straight women, who cannot be guaranteed an orgasm in any sexual encounter, either from the lack of skill or lack of care from their partner.
The Social consequences for sex are higher for women due to sexism. It’s not fair - but it’s true. If things go south - You’ll be looked At badly and take most of the blame.
You will reinforce poor behavior by having sex with men you haven't vetted. Most men you encounter will always put the bare minimum effort he can get away with and still get sex. Slanging pussy to fuckboys creates male entitlement and reinforces their sexist worldview by making them their strategies are effective.
Trying to Prove You’re An “Empowered Woman” By Having No Strings Attached & Emotionless Sex “Like A Man” is Selling Yourself Short. The fact is, men explicitly state they have no reason to care about you as a person, much less care if you even enjoyed the sexual encounter.
As is, It’s not a fair trade. Women are trading down and men are trading up every time because women have got way more to lose and far less to gain. Therefore, we assert that casual sex with men without some kind of extra tangible benefit is an uneven exchange at women's expense.
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