Has anyone encountered PickMes being jealous of you when you have confidence, high self-esteem, self-respect, etc? They'll despise you for having the confidence to call men out on their BS, dump men who cheat on you and your refusal to tolerate men's nonsense because inside of them, they know you're right for being that way and that they're wrong for putting up with men's mistreatment while simultaneuously trying to tell you that you're overreacting when you complain about men. They also hate the fact that you have the confidence they wish they had and in their irrational little minds, they feel that you've taken something away from them (the mental strength you possess) and are superior to them.
I've met a lot of women that are like this and they are exhausting to be around. They'll complain about men's mistreatment of them with you then argue with you when you agree with them and encourage them to put men in their place. They'll tell you that men "aren't that bad" and other such nonsense; completely doubling down on the complaints they've just made! How do you complain and also praise a toxic man?! What sense does that make?!
I really wish I could meet HV women who don't have this disturbing mindset of putting up with toxic men and wanting other women to put up with them too. PickMes have a crab in the bucket mentality - they pull other women down, to stay on the bottom with them due to them being frightened of women who wake up from the lies of the patriarchy and want to make changes in their lives. PickMes do this because they'll be left behind, on their own and will have to face the fact that they've made silly choices that have impacted them negatively. An example of this is when Ciara got serious backlash from women when she made a post on Instagram about choosing to level up and improving herself, which led her to a high-value man (Russell Wilson). Women were abusing her online and saying that nobody asked her for her opinion while others said that she was showing off and were praising the deadbeat men they were with.
Can anyone relate to what I'm talking about? Please let me know in the comments.