As a young woman in this generation I really have no hopes of finding a true love, so ladies i want to ask is it even possible nowadays? All I see around me are shallow relationships where it feels more of a status thing and physicality than truly understanding the other person and caring for them? now i begin to question if it even exists other than treating love as a form of casual entertainment? (maybe its just my current environment but i want to know other's perspectives)
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Men are not designed to love women. They are predators towards us.
True love is everywhere all the time. It's true love when I hug a cat.
True love where men consistently care more about a woman than themselves isn't a thing, historically.
A man can really, REALLY like and admire a woman, but they aren't our moms.
Don't get lost in romcom sauce.
I'll be honest, I gave up on "true love." I think two people can be compatible enough to be satisfied together. But love can only be as good as the people in the relationship. Lots of toxic relationships exist because people have psychological issues among other things that prevent them from being more loving. And so many people settle for a shred of attention, it's why lovebombing works so well and why men do it.
Giving myself the love I deserve, even if it's a little lonely, has made me far happier than any romantic relationship ever has.
Yes but it's rare.
It is, yes.
Love is the ability and desire to consistently put someone else before yourself. Women have a bit more practice at it than men do, but they aren't incapable.
True love is both partners putting each other first, and it's beautiful to see.
I've met a few older couples in my job where they make the time and put the effort in. It's lots of small things which add up; saying I love you, the ritual kiss before bed, putting the kettle on for both of you. On FDS we say to keep vetting your partner; out in the wild they'll tell you to keep dating them. Same difference. I think you have to be best friends.
As long as your healthy men stay in relationships, if you become sick, then you get replaced.
Women stay with unhealthy husbands, but men won't do the same with their wives.
No matter how much they “love” them.
With men they have to invest resources in order to feel masculine and the presence of a feminine woman naturally makes them feel very good. They have natural drives to pursue unless they grow up as a failure to women (usually due to 🌽 addiction, not grooming, mental illness, succumbing to LVM mode in general.)
I definitely believe in love it's obvious hominids experience it. This is real for men because they have natural mate guarding instincts to prevent their mates from getting poached.
Exclusively is definitely a huge benefit and natural goal males have due to this instinct. Males do not ever mate guard for another male which is why gay relationships are extremely promiscuous and sloppy, unsuccessful etc.