I've noticed a trend on instagran where women will share videos of their shared living space, usually it's with a husband or sometimes a boyfriend.
Typically the space is quite girly, lots of pastels, heart shaped pillows, pink kitchenware,etc... but there are always men in the comments trying to make these women feel bad because it's all her style and nothing of her husband's, which is funny because anyone who knows men knows they don't gaf about decor or making their loving space look nice.
Men will say how it's not fair to have their shared living space be all pink and girly but If they had their own place it would be completely empty with a mattress on the floor.
I've been thinking about this alot lately because I've seen it in my personal life, ex bfs complaining about my design choices but providing none of their own, never mind the fact that they won't spend a dime on home decor!
I just don't get why they would complain about their partner making their living space more cozy if they don't even care about decor and interior design.
But but but but I thought men were such visual creatures?
/s