i hate when there's a post about men and women have to derail and gaslights another woman's experience. they typcially always brag aba our having a good father, how they've never been done wrong by a man they've dated or that they have one in general, and how they've always had high standards and they have so many options. It just derails the conversation and no one asked. It's not our fault that a lot of us had to learn the hard way. I'm not saying this with a jelaous intent but it's genuinely annoying.