Y'all remember 😂? This was a classic and opened my eyes. Nothing what she said was wrong and he was clearly using this as a manipulation tactic to get sex. She wasn't looking for a fwb situation and he should've made it clear from the start.
But men were frothing at the mouth and calling OP cruel. I just imagine if it was reversed they would say he dodged a red flag. That she definitely was the problem in her last relationship, that she was too emotional/bpd drama queen, and that she was ofc a slut because she didn't want to settle down.
Also men are hypocritical when they complain about women getting "the ick" or just don't want to clean up men's trauma, when they literally think women who are victims of SA and abuse are the same as whores and have too much emotional baggage to date.
“I’m a nice guy feel bad for me 🥹”
I’d turn the tables - women are used sexually over and over by different men, yet we’re expected to be willing to dive in to a relationship because a man offered. Next time, I’d be like, “oh well I like to take things slowly physically but happy to have a sexless relationship to help with my fears. It helps if you pay for lots of things too 😏”