Y'all remember 😂? This was a classic and opened my eyes. Nothing what she said was wrong and he was clearly using this as a manipulation tactic to get sex. She wasn't looking for a fwb situation and he should've made it clear from the start.
But men were frothing at the mouth and calling OP cruel. I just imagine if it was reversed they would say he dodged a red flag. That she definitely was the problem in her last relationship, that she was too emotional/bpd drama queen, and that she was ofc a slut because she didn't want to settle down.
Also men are hypocritical when they complain about women getting "the ick" or just don't want to clean up men's trauma, when they literally think women who are victims of SA and abuse are the same as whores and have too much emotional baggage to date.
She did well to cut the date short. Her mind was in the right place.
She could have done even better by not letting him know why she didn't want to see him again. By telling him what his problem was to his face, she made it easier for him to predate on the next woman. I'll bet my bottom dollar he won't mention anything about his trauma when he's trying to use the next woman for sex.
This is why FDS promotes blocking and deleting WITHOUT EXPLANATION.
Yeah he had to emphasize the "emotionally" because he's totally fine with getting laid and then ghosting after acting like he wanted a relationship.
“I’m a nice guy feel bad for me 🥹”
I’d turn the tables - women are used sexually over and over by different men, yet we’re expected to be willing to dive in to a relationship because a man offered. Next time, I’d be like, “oh well I like to take things slowly physically but happy to have a sexless relationship to help with my fears. It helps if you pay for lots of things too 😏”
This was the post that introduced me to FDS
Lol, that post was all over Twitter.