You shouldn't use this term just because you seek a relationship that values connection and commitment before engaging in sex.
This is something the majority of humans want in a relationship, whether they decide to admit it or not. We don't need to label something that is universal.
I hate it when people classify you as asexual or demisexual just because you don't want to participate in hookup culture.
Images from the FDS subreddit.
I would include the word asexual as well.
Thought experiment
If every man was guaranteed to be respectful and good in bed
And every child was guaranteed to have a good upbringing and cared for in society
And society did not consider monogamy the ideal, but had community family structures and support
What would you do? Choose one man for life?