I am new to OLD after dumping my scrote bf a couple months ago (post history). Never really used it before as I always met boyfriends in real life. I'm on hinge and idk how to deal with the coffee/boba request. We know this is a no, but what do you actually do when this happens?
I've thought of just unmatching, saying "I don't do coffee/boba dates", or making up an excuse like Oh I don't drink boba. But tbh the last two just feels like I'm trying to change what he already offered and I'm trying to start taking men at face value and not being like "oh I can change him."
What do you guys think? Just unmatch?
Also, I realized boba is the new way to meet up at night for the price of a coffee 🤦🏼♀️
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