Hi guys.
I made a post not long ago about this horrible bumble date where the guy basically lied a lot, invited me out and then asked if I wanted to split the bill.
I followed FDS advice and blocked him.
Anyway we had shared spotify playlists at this point and I noticed his spotify playlist for me had a shady title about being ghosted. I thought it was super cringe of him.
Anyway, this week I began to get messages on this social media account from this nearly empty profile. They began to insult me out of nowhere even though I hadn't been active in there for a while so I knew something was up.
Then they made fun of some physical traits of mine like being very short and I knew immediately who it was. I guess he searched for my spotify ID name which was the same on that social media page.
Mind you, the bumble guy was very fat, tiny, ugly and on top it dressed very poorly. So this feels like projection.
I just feel uncomfortable. I am glad I never gave him my location although I am going to a space he usually hangs out at.
I’m SO sorry you’re dealing with this. Block on everything. No response will kill this guy’s agenda faster than any response could.
Well, aren't you glad you listened to your gut feeling on this guy? Thank God you didn't get involved with him.
Hes a fuckin bich. Useless.
If you’re feeling extra petty. Send him a private message and be like “_____ I know it’s you.” And then proceed to block his ass so he can’t respond and keep blocking. Lol
if for whatever reason you cant block him or he starts doing that weird contacting you on everything shit just lead him on. Agree to everything, agree to meet up then just stand him up. Make sure its a far away place. Doesn't have to take up all your precious time and energy just let the guy fizzle out while making him look like a dummy. That's just what I would do. I've had previous people I ghosted get upset at me over me playing them like a fiddle to get them to leave me alone. Current debating if the current guy I am talking to is going to end up on this dead end rollercoaster with me.
I'm still on that #wastehistime era lol.