Is there a link for the handbook? I've searched the website but can't seem to find it. I remember viewing it on Reddit back in the day. Thanks!

Some months ago, I wrote about a friend of mine that was creating content about men and dating. I mentioned that her brother and dad ordered her to delete the videos she made and her younger brother, mind you, essentially said he’d disown her if the videos remained up as he considers it a betrayal f

Well… first post lets start. Got married at 25 (average in my country is 30 so young). We already had struggles before marriage. Married for about five years now. ive always been open about my goals for the future. I want to move to another country . Its my no 1 life goal. He said he wanted that too

I posted here recently about struggling to leave my 1.5 year relationship with a stoner man who lives with his Mum and was jobless (I know, I know). He had a college interview coming up and I was going to wait until after the interview to break up with him. However as I was still struggling with the

Perrie from Little Mix just posted a solo single and not only does it go hard, but it also sounds like she hired a songwriter who lurks on FDS Here's the lyrics Come round to mine and tell me what's been happenin' You say it's him, that's not very surprisin' Your eyes are red, I can tell you've b

I've been looking for meetup groups and this company which organises events for singles appeared in an online ad: https://www.instagram.com/happy.corner.hk/?hl=en It seems different from traditional speed dating companies where you just talk to men while dining. I know FDS generally advises users

FDS is very vocal about not dating down, but that applies both ways. Don't ever get with a guy who knows for a fact that he can dump you for a woman in his 'own league' any time he likes, or whose usual type you know he's not Because even if he's not a cheater, it's really not a matter of if but wh

A lot of people think OLD sucks as it is full of catfishes, predators, and other types of LVM. Meetup groups advertised online feel safer as most people do not see them as a haven for LWM. I've noticed how a lot of the meetup groups held in my area occur in bars or pubs (where someone spiking your d

I went out to a pub with my friends, once just with my female friends, and another time with our male friends. The first night, one of my friends actually got attacked by some male. She ended up needing medical help and we had to file a police report. All because she tried to step in and protect ano

I have been thinking a lot about this and I think this guy is lying. I think that the reason why he wanted to date me is bc he believes that I’m like his ex. Also, I sense a little bit of emotional manipulation. A few days ago, I broke up with this guy who’s coparenting a dog with his ex. This is

Biologically, the most popular form of pornography men enjoy should be one man with multiple women... You would think that that would be what men wanted to see..That's what men keep telling us anyway, that it's their job to spread the seed far and wide.. however, that is not the most popular form of

Stop dating men who aren’t curious about you. Stop dating men who don’t ask questions about you. Stop dating men who make zero effort to make meaningful conversation. Stop dating boring ass men. That’s it. That’s the word for today!

I posted about this site a long while ago and how I had stumbled upon it in my late teens by digging through my older sister's internet search history (yep, nosey). It was around in the early 2000s, maybe late 90s. FDS had it in their Wiki, too, but sisters... it is a gold mine! It looked like the

So a few years back I was acquainted with this guy from Discord. We were online friends and would bond over liking the same games and musical artists. He seemed like the typical "nice" introverted guy so I thought he was cool. But then he started sending memes about how fat ugly women only want 6 fo

I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

This guy on my uni's discord chat has been complaining about a breakup where the ex and him didn't work out together. he wanted kids and she doesnt. Not too long later the men of the chat start rallying and he mentions he lies to all the women about his political views, doing all your typical scrote

Especially given how so many men are scrotes and will lie as he is planning to cheat. It may also make you seem interested in him when he may be only flirting with you out of boredom. It seems better to find out if he is truly single by observing his actions.

You know that tired phrase men love to throw around — “gold digger” — when a woman doesn’t want to see them again after they’ve spent a little money? Reality check: not all women want to be in a man’s presence even if he pays. My time and energy is precious, and I don’t “owe” anyone my company just

The next time you see a manosphere incel try to performatively hate on your selfies by claiming he wouldn't fuck you under any circumstances, tell him "that's a funny way of saying I'd rather fuck a man" and watch the glorious crash out unfold 😅 Or if he's nitpicking your facial features like he'

I'm 90 percent certain this was written by a larping incel lmfao 😆

U ever think about the fact that women can potentially gestate/raise children without their father even being aware of their existence or kinship with him, but men can't really have kids in their life at all in any way shape or form (aside from maybe extended family member's) without a woman's agree

Like they always want to convince women that we don't live in a hypersexual culture or that men have it worse. Why?

I don't understand men who claim to have been 'raped' by women? With what organ my good sir? Also their sob stories always boil down to some variation of "she sucked me off when I was asleep 🥺" Also I don't understand men who won't stop camping out in feminist's comments on social media trying to

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I just ended things with the last guy from OLD. It lasted 2.5 weeks. In my last post, I talked about the five guys I dated this month: the crazy divorcee who called me a gold digger for $7 coffee, the kissing punisher, the druggie, the born again Christian with a decade long sobriety (still sad abo

Someone said to me that I can make friends or meet men via hobbies, but the thing is a lot of things I am into are done by one person only. For example, I like reading and that is a hobby done by one person as opposed to something like group sports. I am also interested in learning to drive and sing

I have noticed when men talk about issues that are specific to their gender, they always bring up how men have higher suicide rates than women. They leave out that women have higher rates of suicidal ideation than men and more unsuccessful attempts. Then they try to explain that the reason why men h

I was out with my friend for drinks last night. I told her all about my dating escapades ever since reopening my online dating apps and buying the subscription, and she shared hers too. The AUDACITY that men have to pursue women like us is insane! For context, both of us are working women in promi

Pick mes and scrotes in the comment bitter women won’t accept low effort dates. But when women accept these dates and get traumatized, the gaslighting comes and say tells you, you should’ve choose better. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/JYVJyLNpFU